Constipation is a common issue for many children, and it can cause discomfort for both children and their caregivers. Whether it’s a toddler resisting the toilet or a preschooler dealing with painful bowel movements, addressing constipation early can make a significant difference. It’s key to understand what constipation is, why it happens, common signs to watch for, and practical steps to prevent constipation.
Already struggling with constipation and looking for more ways to manage it? This PedsDocTalk YouTube video discusses both non-medical and medical treatments, offering guidance on when to use each approach.
What is constipation?
Constipation isn’t just about infrequent bowel movements– it can also involve painful or difficult stools. Key signs in children include:
- Hard, pebble-like stool
- Pain, discomfort, or excessive straining during bowel movements
- Infrequent bowel movements
This PedsDocTalk YouTube video includes more details and guidelines about defining constipation and images of stool appearance.
How does constipation happen?
To manage constipation effectively, it’s essential to understand how the digestive system works. When your child eats, food moves from the stomach to the small intestine, where nutrients are absorbed. Waste enters the large interesting (colon), where water is reabsorbed to form stool. If too much water is absorbed or if stool remains in the colon for too long, it becomes hard, dry, and difficult to pass.
This is where the problem begins: as stool hardens, bowel movements become painful, leading some children to avoid going to the bathroom altogether. This avoidance can create a cycle where stool sits in the colon even longer, worsening constipation. The longer stool stays in the colon, the harder and more uncomfortable it becomes to pass.
Understanding this physiological process is key to preventing and managing constipation. When we address both the physical and psychological aspects, such as the fear of painful bowel movements, we can help children overcome this and establish regular stool habits.
Symptoms of constipation
Common symptoms of constipation in children include infrequent bowel movements – two or fewer times per week – small, hard stools, pain during bowel movements, and abdominal discomfort.
In some cases, it can also lead to more concerning issues like anal fissures, where large, hard stools cause small tears in the skin around the rectum. You may also notice fecal streaking or soiling in your child’s underwear, which occurs when stool becomes more backed up. In more severe cases, constipation can cause encopresis, where liquid stool leaks around an impacted stool. Although it may look like diarrhea, this is a sign of significant constipation that requires attention.
Monitoring your child’s bowel habits and having open conversations about toileting can help you catch constipation early. When you’re aware of their regular patterns, you can step in sooner, easing their discomfort and preventing further complications.
Step-by-step guide on preventing constipation
Know your child’s baseline stool habits: Every child is different. Some children have bowel movements multiple times a day, while others go every couple of days. Knowing what’s normal for your child can help you recognize early signs of constipation.
Identify triggers: Stress, certain foods, or environments (like avoiding school bathrooms) can contribute to constipation. Monitoring these triggers can help you manage or prevent constipation before it becomes a problem.
Improve dietary habits and hydration: One of the best ways to prevent constipation is through diet and hydration. Download this PedsDocTalk guide to make sure your toddler is getting all the nutrition their growing body needs. Key strategies include:
- Increase fiber intake: introduce more fruits, vegetables, and whole grains into your child’s diet. Foods high in fiber add bulk to the stool, making it easier to pass.
- Incorporate probiotics: Yogurt and fermented foods containing live cultures can promote gut health. Though studies on probiotics for constipation are limited, they are often used by parents to improve digestion.
- Ensure adequate hydration: encourage your child to drink water throughout the day. Dehydration can harden stool and make bowel movements difficult to pass. For infants, breast milk and formula provide sufficient hydration, with small amounts of water introduced once solid foods are started.
Promote physical activity: Physical movement stimulates bowel motility. Encouraging your child to stay active, from tummy time for infants to outdoor play for older kids, can help keep their digestive system functioning well.
Establish healthy bathroom routines: Set regular bathroom times, especially after meals, when the body’s natural reflexes are strongest. For children who are potty trained, avoiding long play sessions without bathroom breaks can help prevent them from holding stool, which can lead to constipation. Make sure your child feels comfortable using the bathroom, whether at home or school.
Become a constipation doula: This is my coined phrase to describe the emotional and psychological coaching you may need to do to support your child who is constipated. Children sometimes need emotional support during bowel movements, especially when they’ve experienced painful bowel movements before. Offer comfort and encouragement to help them overcome any psychological barriers. Stay calm, empathetic, and positive as you guide them through these challenging moments.
It’s important to acknowledge your child’s discomfort and reassure them that it’s okay to feel scared or anxious during bowel movements. Offering comfort, such as gentle belly massages or warm baths, can help ease their physical discomfort. Additionally, creating a stress-free bathroom environment with relaxed, unhurried routines can help reduce anxiety, allowing your child to feel more comfortable and confident.
When to seek help
In most cases, constipation can be managed at home with dietary changes, hydration, and healthy routines. It’s important to understand that not all constipation is functional, and sometimes, there can be other underlying medical conditions. You should consult a healthcare provider if your child experiences:
- Persistent or severe symptoms: Constipation that lasts more than a few weeks despite interventions or if the constipation is causing notable discomfort.
- Significant changes in bowel habits: Fewer than three bowel movements per week or constant hard stools.
- Associated symptoms: Abdominal pain, blood in the stool, or vomiting.
- Signs of fecal impaction: Bloating or the presence of hard stool in the rectum
- Behavioral issues: The constipation is impacting potty training, or the lack of pooping is impacting their mood and leading to more tantrums.
- Newborn or infant concerns: Significant changes in bowel patterns, discomfort, or feeding issues.
Constipation in children can be frustrating and uncomfortable, but with the right prevention strategies – like knowing their bowel habits, improving their diet, and encouraging regular bathroom routines – you can help keep your child’s digestion running smoothly. Don’t hesitate to seek help if needed. If you’re unsure about your child’s constipation or if symptoms persist, it’s always best to consult with your pediatrician. Remember to offer comfort and support during those tough moments.
Looking for more guidance on managing constipation?
If you’ve already tried natural and behavioral strategies to manage your child’s constipation and are still facing challenges, there may be additional steps you can take. This PedsDocTalk YouTube video discusses both non-medical and medical treatments, offering guidance on when to use each approach. Understanding your child’s bowel habits and knowing when to take further action is key to managing constipation effectively.
This video explores dietary changes, medication options, and when more advanced interventions like suppositories or enemas may be necessary. The video also covers creating a constipation action plan with your child’s pediatrician. For more details, watch HERE.
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